KNOW ME THEN PLAY ME: BY JEMEIL G-MONEY

IT MAY BE A BIT SCARY TO HAVE A PERSON IN YOUR LIFE THAT KNOWS YOU TOO WELL...OF COURSE WE ALL SAY WE WANT A PERSON THAT UNDERSTANDS US AND THAT KNOWS US VERY WELL..BUT WHEN REALITY HITS...DO WE IN FACT WANT A PERSON OR OUR SIGNIFICANT OTHER TO KNOW US ALMOST BETTER THAN OURSELVES?..WELL..IM NOT TOO FOND OF THE IDEA..BUT ..REFLECTING ON THE HISTORY OF YOUR RELATIONSHIP..YOU WILL DETERMINE WHEN AND HOW YOU WERE ABLE TO GIVE YOUR SIGNIFICANT OTHER REASONS TO KNOW YOU SO WELL!!
       ONCE A PERSON FEELS THEY KNOW YOU SO WELL..THEIR BEHAVIOUR STARTS TO CHANGE..THEY ARE QUICK TO NAG..QUICK TO ARGUE..EVERYTHING SEEMS TO BE A BOTHER..YOUR WAYS THAT THEY HAVE TOLERATED FROM DAY ONE BECOMES A MAJOR PROBLEM NOW!
         HOW CAN YOU PLEASE SUCH A PERSON?..HOW CAN YOU GET THAT SAME FEELING FROM DAY ONE IN WHICH EVERYTHING IS FUN AND EXCITING AND ALL SEEMS PERFECT WITH YOU BOTH?..WELL...TO ANSWER THAT..ITS ABOUT YOU KNOWING WHEN TO FALL BACK..ITS ABOUT YOU KNOWING NOT TO EXPRESS TOO MUCH EMOTION TO YOUR LOVED ONES!!..YES WE WANT TO "GIVE OUR ALL" TO A PERSON ..BUT WHEN YOU REALIZE THAT YOUR ACTIONS ARE BEING TAKEN ADVANTAGE OF..ITS TIME TO SLOW YOUR ROLL..FALL BACK..AND CATCH YOURSELF!!
          WHO WANTS TO BE IN A RELATIONSHIP IN WHICH YOUR NOT SURE IF AN ARGUMENT WILL ARISE AT ANY GIVEN MOMENT?..WHO WANTS TO CONSTANTLY BE ABUSED?..WHO WANTS TO BE DISRESPECTED ALL THE TIME?...WHO WANTS TO PLAY CHILDISH GAMES WHEN IN FACT YOUR AN ADULT?..WHO WANTS TO CONTINUE A RELATIONSHIP THAT INVOLVES STRESS, CONFUSION, UNHAPPINESS, TORTURE,AND MISERY?....WELL... NOT ME...AND THE MOST I CAN ADVISE YOU WITH IS...AS OF NOW IF YOU WANT TO MAKE A DIFFERENCE FOR THE BETTER..AND YOU REALLY WANT TO MAKE YOUR RELATIONSHIP WORK...LIMIT HOW MUCH YOU EXPRESS YOURSELF(MANY PEOPLE ARE NOT WORTH YOUR TIME AND ENERGY)...CONCEAL YOUR INTENTIONS(DONT GIVE THEM A CLUE WHAT YOU ARE UP TO..KEEP THEM BLINDED)...AND ..SAY LESS THAN NECESSARY(THE LESS YOU TALK IS THE MORE CONTROL YOU HAVE!!!
                 AS MUCH AS WE WANT TO GIVE OURSELVES TO SOMEONE..SIT BACK AND PAY ATTENTION TO WHETHER THE PERSON YOUR INVOLVED WITH..IS THE PERSON THAT REALLY DESERVES YOU...BECAUSE YOU SURE DO NOT WANT THE "WRONG PERSON" HAVE THE IMPRESSION THAT THEY CAN SEE RIGHT THRU YOU!...(HOW DO THEY DO THAT SH*T?...LOL)

                                                                                      LOVE,

                                                                                                SHI-MEIL  XOXOXO<iframe title="YouTube video player" width="640" height="390" src="http://www.youtube.com/embed/5FJO6b8GL3M" frameborder="0" allowfullscreen></iframe>