VALENTINES DAY BLUES

     ITS THAT TIME OF THE YEAR AGAIN  WHEN ALL WILL GET ALL ROMANTIC..AND SHOW THE UPMOST AFFECTION TO THE ONE THAT THEY LOVE!!ITS LOVE AT ITS BEST..AS PEOPLE SCRAM ALL AROUND TO TAKE ADVANTAGE OF A HOLIDAY THAT RECOGNIZES THE KEY WORD L-O-V-E!!

    NOW, WHAT HAPPENS TO THOSE THAT DONT HAVE A VALENTINES?..WHAT HAPPENS TO THE VALENTINES THAT ARE GOING TO BE AWAY FROM EACH OTHER?..WHAT HAPPENS TO THOSE THAT BREAK UP AROUND THIS TIME FOR THEIR OWN PERSONAL REASONS?..WELL..I CAN BE AN HONEST MAN AND TELL YOU THAT ON MY BEHALF..I AM NOT THE PERFECT GUY..I HAVE A LADY THAT I DEEPLY AND SINCERELY LOVE WITH ALL MY HEART..A WOMAN THAT I WILL PUT ON THE TOP OF MY PRIORITIES..A WOMAN THAT MEANS SOOO MUCH TO ME!!...BUT GUESS WHAT?....

    I  ATSOME POINT WILL MAKE MISTAKES AND MY LOVE FOR HER MAY SEEM LIKE IT WENT DOWN THE TOILET..HOWEVER..IF MY RELATIONSHIP MEANS ALOT TO ME..AND MY FOCUS IS TO MAKE THINGS BETTER..IT WILL BE UP TO MYSELF AND MY MATE TO MAKE THINGS WORK!!

        AS I WRITE..I AM EXPERIENCING THE VALENTINES DAY BLUES..AND THIS SHOULD NOT BE SUCH A SUPRISE TO MANY PEOPLE..BECAUSE HONESTLY SPEAKING..WE TREAT EVERYDAY AS THOUGH ITS VALENTINES DAY..I BELIEVE THAT THE WAY WE EXPRESS OUR LOVE IT MAY SEEM A BIT OVERBEARING..BUT..WE WILL NOT ALWAYS SEE EYE TO EYE..WE WILL NOT ALWAYS AGREE WITH ONE ANOTHER..BUT ITS ONLY GETTING PAST THOSE OBSTACLES THAT WILL ALLOW YOU AND YOUR MATE TO GROW AS ONE...I BELIEVE THAT MY RELATIONSHIP IS BEYOND REAL..AND ITS THE FEELINGS THAT I GET INSIDE AND OUT THAT ALLOWS ME TO FEEL THIS WAY!!

   IF YOU KNOW THAT YOU LOVE SOMEONE, EXPRESS IT TO THEM, IF YOU KNOW YOU LOVE SOMEONE, AVOID DOING THINGS THAT MAY IRRITATE THEM, WHEN YOUR IN A RELATIONSHIP, ITS NOT ONLY ABOUT YOU, ITS ABOUT YOU AND YOUR MATE!

        WITH PRAYERS, FAITH AND BELIEF ANYTHING IS POSSIBLE...AND WITH A BETTER UNDERSTANDING YOU AND YOUR MATE WILL WORK ON BETTERING THINGS!!..IS IT REAL LOVE?..IS YOUR LOVE TEMPORARY?..IS YOUR LOVE FOR A LIFETIME?..WELL, THAT IS UP TO YOU TO DETERMINE!..THE ANSWER LIES WITHIN YOU!!!

          ENJOY YOUR VALENTINES DAY, AND CONTINUE SHARING THE LOVE YOU BELIEVE YOUR MATE DESERVES..DONT WAIT UNTIL ITS TOO LATE..IT STARTS NOW..SO PICK UP THAT PHONE AND TELL THEM HOW MUCH THEY MEAN TO YOU!!!
                                                                                                  XOXOXO, SHI-MEIL