I'd love to hear your honest raw advice on this. I just got out of a serious relationship, and have since realized I like to go for the bad boy type (thanks to the Ex). I'm talking, the one you know you shouldn't mess with cuz your heart breaks from just looking at the mother fucker. In your eyes, how does a girl best handle a man like that? I see girls getting jealous, getting crazy. I can't pull that shit, wayyy to much pride for this girl. How do you bring a man like that down from his pedestal so he can see you eye to eye, and not be waving his pimp cup in the air everywhere he goes??..... I'm talking about that dude that can smooth talk his way into a girls heart, say all the right things and then run his game like it's the playoffs...So this idea of control and power, how do you keep the playing field level??
Give me your honest thoughts on this, I'm sure you know a thing or two about being a bad boy..
Peace n Love
ANONYMOUS! lol
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Greetings Ms Anonymous,
Okay..yes your right..i do have my experience being a bad boy..however...as the bad boy..your not supposed to give a fuck..we do as we please..and the more you show affection and giving that ass to us..we feel that our job is complete!!....however..there are alot of men that gives the image of being a bad boy..but their faking an identity they cannot control!!....its nothing wrong with you liking the bad boy type..the problem is how much do you let this guy feel like he is in control?...what is your definition of a bad boy?...what is it about bad boys that you really like?..Okay..now you have to flip the script...as much as it may be a bit tempting..you have to give the person the "mirror effect"..basically..what he gives out..you give back..no extra ish...when he starts going all out for you..you step it up a notch...if he falls back..you fall wayyyy back....because being smooth talked will happen regardless..a dude will say anything to get in your heart..and especially to get some pussy...you may get fucked real good..then you get emotionally attached..then you lose a bit of control because you start letting your emotions supercede your intelligence..sorry to say..but i feel that you should continue being a loving and caring person...but when it comes to men..just act like a dude..(remember..a dude dont have that much control..unless you give him that power)!!
YOURS TRULY,
SHI-MEIL
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